Women needs proper stimulation to enjoy lovemaking.  Unlike men, the sexual reproductive organ of women is inside the body.  So it is not quickly awaken during sex.  Passionate kissing help, lingering touch and flowery words.  Women might not admit this but the fact is they love adjectives to enjoy sex.  Don’t do it quickly, women needs to be stimulate by foreplay before the big event.  Some of them likes to read men’s magazine and used thier imagination to stimulate themeselves.  Reading is effective than watching dirty/pornographic movies.  Reading makes the mind work, and remember it all starts in the brain.   Men can be arouse easily, but women is different, it could take longer than you think it possible if not properly administer (foreplay).  If men loves BJ then why not try it on women, you might be surprise she will find it awesome.  You’ll know when a women is ready to be enter.  Touch the part that makes her a women, you will notice it would turn wet and slippery, that’s the time you give her glory.  After that, wait for her, when you are sure she is satisfied then you let go yourself.  Happy now?  Keep your arms around her and even your silence would give her comfort, your arms is enough to give her unspoken promises and assurance.